I went through this myself when I got laid off. Maybe it’s just a rite of passage at some point for anyone whose job is rather all-consuming, but I’m so glad you’re seeking the answers sooner than later. The last many years have been a search for me for identity outside of career, and it’s been really rewarding to start to move past the need to feel like I’m “important” or “worthy” when people ask what I do. Because our jobs can be cool, rewarding, exciting, etc., but they are ultimately just another part of our lives, not who we ARE. After all, someone’s job can make them seem cool, but if they’re not actually cool, everyone will find out eventually 😂
YES! It’s so important to keep our sense of self separate from our jobs (although I’m so glad my job brought me to you! <3). I’m still learning how to compartmentalize.
Great topic! I think about this a lot, especially as I’m going through a huge career pivot and left behind $$$ for the sake of my mental health. Excited to see what topic you dive into next!
YES! But you are so brave to pivot and try something completely different. I think a lot of us just get comfy with our gigs. And then we think we’re “too old” to make a change (which is so not true).
I have felt all of this deeply. And I love you for being Emma <3!
And I have learned so much from you (both in work, and in life <3). I always thought you balanced both gracefully.
I went through this myself when I got laid off. Maybe it’s just a rite of passage at some point for anyone whose job is rather all-consuming, but I’m so glad you’re seeking the answers sooner than later. The last many years have been a search for me for identity outside of career, and it’s been really rewarding to start to move past the need to feel like I’m “important” or “worthy” when people ask what I do. Because our jobs can be cool, rewarding, exciting, etc., but they are ultimately just another part of our lives, not who we ARE. After all, someone’s job can make them seem cool, but if they’re not actually cool, everyone will find out eventually 😂
YES! It’s so important to keep our sense of self separate from our jobs (although I’m so glad my job brought me to you! <3). I’m still learning how to compartmentalize.
Great topic! I think about this a lot, especially as I’m going through a huge career pivot and left behind $$$ for the sake of my mental health. Excited to see what topic you dive into next!
YES! But you are so brave to pivot and try something completely different. I think a lot of us just get comfy with our gigs. And then we think we’re “too old” to make a change (which is so not true).